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S*X BEFORE MARRIAGE 
(written and compiled by Debbie Williamson)

S*x before marriage. It is S*X before marriage. MAKING LOVE is with your marital partner. (For the benefit of companies with strict email policies - I have left out the letter of that particular word!!)

I will never forget what a couple shared with us years ago during a Marriage Encounter course that they presented. I thought at the time it was a bit hectic and over the top and perhaps it was but I now see their point. They shared that whenever they made love - at the crucial point they would praise God......

They were right.......MAKING LOVE is spiritual and not only physical. Making love is a culmination of one's absolute love for each other. And its ONLY for marriage. The bible is very clear. We become ONE with our partners. Many people (before marriage/during marriage) have more than one s*xual partner....and that is where the problems start. ...... how many people break soul ties..... do you realise how the devil uses s*x as a tool for his demons........its scary.........demonic forces that travel through s*x............the union /bond is not tightened because it is not cemented ....that is only in marriage. So one has to BREAK soul ties with each and every s*xual partner. So bottom line everytime you have s*x with someone outside marriage you become ONE.......only problem you are not ONE because you are not married.........so vicious circle...hence the reason why we have to break soul ties and by doing so, break the demonic force that has been allowed to enter through s*xual relations outside marriage.

MARRIAGE is a COVENANT. MAKING LOVE is an integral part of that COVENANT.

Probably another reason why many marriages do break up........because of demonic forces being allowed to manifest because of S*X before marriage.....just a thought!

And also it is important to break soul ties with our ex spouse once divorced or even before.

Believe me I LOVE s*x. (I am no prude and had many s*xual partners before I got married - thus had to do much breaking of soul ties which I only did years later when I became aware of the need to do this)........but have abstained since my divorce.......and will continue to do so until when/if I remarry.

How about living together? I guess I do not have to answer that one! Sharing a bed, having s*x WITHOUT the convenant of marriage. Eish! Dangerous.

If we honour Him then He WILL honour us. IF two people love each other and live their relationship according to His Principles, God will never stop the relationship.
We are...
"You have not because you do not ask"
(The Living Bible)
James 4 vs 2

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