Frequently Asked Questions

QUESTION: How old do I have to be to join?
ANSWER: You must be 18 years or older to participate.

QUESTION: Is this Introduction Service only for committed (born-again) Christians?
ANSWER: We presume that the people that visit our website are committed (born-again) Christians and have come to this site to meet other like-minded Believers with similar interests and beliefs. We trust that everyone who joins as a member will conduct themselves in a Christian-like manner. We cannot guarantee that everyone that visits this site is a committed (born-again) Christian, however only committed (born-again) Christians are eligible to become members. Having said this, we are not a site per sê.

QUESTION: I am separated from my spouse - the divorce is pending - can I join in the meantime?
ANSWER: Unfortunately no. Amongst other reasons - In a nutshell - Although you might not be living as husband and wife - technically you are still married. That door of your life needs to be firmly shut!! You can only literally move on once your divorce is final.

QUESTION: Does Connecting Christians fall under any particular church?
ANSWER: No! The Facilitator operating this service worships at a particular charismatic church, however, we are open to all unattached committed (born-again) Christians from any bible based/Trinity centred (God the Father, His son Jesus Christ and Holy Spirit) denomination (traditional/evangelical/charismatic).

QUESTION: Does my private information stay private?
ANSWER: Absolutely! We are 100% committed to your privacy. We do not sell your information to any marketers or sales people. Your safety and security is our primary concern.

QUESTION: Does the member search, exclude, race, colour and ethnicity?
ANSWER: Yes it does, however you can specify which race, colour and ethnicity you are interested in.(Without prejudice!) Kindly note: Your preference in this regard is totally at YOUR own discretion - not ours!

QUESTION: Can I become a success story one day, so that my testimony can encourage other Christian singles?
ANSWER: Yes. Nothing would give us more joy than for you to become a success story and for you to share your testimony to encourage other Christian singles. Permission granted by yourselves of course!

QUESTION: What if my personal details change?
ANSWER: Contact us as soon as possible and we will make sure that your details are updated.

QUESTION: Should I send a photograph?
ANSWER: Photographs are NOT posted on our website or any other Internet service. A non
photograph will not influence your chances of meeting someone special, however, strongly
recommended, (as they assist us in the selection process, as we do not have the opportunity to meet
each and every member). As per the membership form (where applicable) you have the choice to
indicate a) For RECORD purposes only (in which case members are welcome to exchange photos
between themselves) b) Your photo will be attached to your profile and forwarded to select members.

QUESTION: Do you have do's and don'ts for a photograph?
ANSWER: We reserve the right to edit, crop or reject any photos.
The following will be rejected:
Nude, obscene, sexual or otherwise offensive photos.

QUESTION: What are the membership fees?
ANSWER: Click onto Membership Agreement/form and once you have fully understood and read the Terms and Conditions, click onto shaded paragraph for costs and the Membership form.

QUESTION: Once I have completed the form and submitted it to you, am I obligated to join as a member of Connecting Christians?
ANSWER: Obligated, NO! But since you have completed it, we encourage you to follow through with membership as you never know what surprise God might have in store for you.

QUESTION: What happens if after I have joined, I get "cold feet"?
ANSWER: The most important aspect of meeting people is to have fun and enjoy the experience. You are not going to get married tomorrow or the next day or even the day after that (but having said this, let us not limit God!). Having a cup of coffee does not necessarily mean committment or marriage . Its friendship first and foremost. No pressure, just relax and have fun.

QUESTION: What are my payment options?
ANSWER: Cash/direct bank deposit/internet transfer. Regret no cheques accepted.

QUESTION: If I cannot afford the Membership Fee?
ANSWER: Our aim is to make this service affordable to all unattached committed (born-again) Christians. Having said this, we have a heart for single Moms and other unattached Christians who are genuinely going through "financial hard times" And if you believe you fit into these categories, we do offer reduced fees (purely at our discretion). Thus no one is prevented from joining. And  the onus is on you to share this with the Facilitator. However, you do need to first complete the membership form, in order for us to have your details on hand whilst praying for you.